Stories from the Fires by Linda Claire Puig - Heart of the Mother Healing

Stories from the Fires by Linda Claire Puig

I received this post as an email from Linda Clair Puig about the Fires in Sonoma County a week or so ago and found it so heart wrenching and inspiring at the same time, I wanted to share it with you all.....

My body may have been in Italy, but my heart and soul were in Sonoma County, my home for nearly 20 years, and it was on fire.

The flames that engulfed the area last month are now the worst fire disaster in California history, and I felt like I needed to be there. So I left Italy early, put off Spain for another time and came home.

Being here has been both inspiring and heartbreaking, and I wanted to share with you a few stories and insights from the fires and the aftermath.

I know it's not my usual article content. It's about "heart stuff" and doorways and people coming together. And it feels important to write about. I hope it touches something for you this weekend.

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The destruction here was so massive that the numbers are hard to comprehend: 5,300 homes in Sonoma County alone are GONE. Every person who lives here knows someone whose house burned down. Some people know literally DOZENS.

That number doesn't even include the beloved restaurants, schools, offices, theater spaces, day care centers, wineries, historical buildings and more. In total, the fires in Sonoma County destroyed 7,010 structures. More than 100,000 people were evacuated at one time or another. In some schools, 10% of the student body -- and teacher body -- lost their homes.

Fanned by 80 mph winds, the fire struck in the middle of the night, which made for many harrowing, near-miss escapes.

One woman I talked to at the Humane Society had to flee for her life, like many others did, and in doing so, she left 4 cats behind. Her house -- and all the fine woodworking furniture her late husband had made -- went up in flames.

 

Other people were more fortunate. While their houses may have burned down, they had more time to gather things and loved ones together before leaving.

A couple I met at my favorite coffee shop got their 2 cats, 2 dogs and 8 chickens (!) safely evacuated. They laugh at the material things they stuffed in their car with the animals -- for instance, a musical instrument, rather than a computer -- but recognize even now that they wouldn't do it any differently.

"It was the heart stuff that really mattered," the woman said.

I think we see that in all disasters. People get really BASIC about what matters, and it's always the heart stuff.

One fellow, a former firefighter, stayed behind to protect his house, and he knew how. But when an elderly couple walked out of the smoke towards him, he dropped his efforts and packed them into his truck to drive them out of danger. They stopped and picked up another elderly couple walking on the road and eventually, he had to drive through a burning tree to get them all to safety.

He didn't hesitate to leave his house to burn. Heart stuff.

Another woman I talked to threw a brick through a window to get in and help a neighbor escape. Heart stuff.

A husband and wife, shivering in a pool to escape the flames all around them, recited all the things they loved and appreciated about each other and the lives they've shared together. Heart stuff.

 The heart stuff showed up in thousands of different ways, as people came streaming forward to help, during and after the fires. People whose homes had burned, along with those in non-threatened areas showed up at volunteer centers at 5 am and worked non-stop.

Donations of all kinds flooded in. Volunteers jumped in to coordinate volunteers. Chefs and farms collaborated to cook food for evacuees -- for weeks. All the animal shelters coordinated to maximize help.

People all over the area offered homes and horse stalls and pastures and everything. Folks are still showing up at dusk to the burned neighborhoods to try to rescue and repatriate cats with their owners. Heart stuff.

Now, as those who lost their houses regroup, they have multiple places to go to refurbish their lives. There's even a "matchmaking" website where fire victims can state their needs (twin beds, for example) and administrators match them with someone who has already listed those needed items as available to give. I could go on...it's utterly remarkable.

One non-profit put it this way: "As a nonprofit agency that depends upon donation support, we are familiar with our community's deep capacity to give. And still, when it is witnessed at the magnitude we have seen over these past three weeks, it takes your breath away."